Wednesday, August 29, 2012

Tip of the Day 8/29/12

99 Days of Summer: As summer winds down I have found my days filled with activity preparing for the seasons ahead. I love the preparations and the anticipation of the fun and tasty things that are ahead because of it. Blueberry pancakes and homemade spaghetti sauce, along with Christmas gifts and warm clothing, are a few of the things I am preparing. God's Word instructs us to be wise and prepared, not to be like the sluggard. It is a joyful activity when the "work" you are doing will have rewards, like the joy on someone's face when they open the gift you put time and thought into, the homemade pancakes for the family on a Saturday morning made with the blueberries you put up, time to sit and play a game because the house is already clean because you and everyone in the family have worked together to make it a home. Yes, I am a busy person. Today I will chop and freeze onions, make granola, do laundry, and work
on a dress I am sewing. These are important activities for my home. Your day may be filled with a job that provides the means for support. That activity is just as important. If my husband did not work to support us, there would not be a home for me to care for. Find your purpose, evaluate your call in life. Is it a season of working outside the home? If it is, embrace that and develop the skills to meet the needs of your family in the way best for you. When I worked outside the home, I did not do the things I do now. We ate out more, I made "semi-homemade" meals. Taking ironing to the dry cleaners was an important decision. Cleaning was consolidated and Richard helped because I needed him to. Now when he cleans the kitchen after dinner, like he did last night, it is because he has chosen to give me a break from that task. I do not expect him to do things I am capable of when he gets home from his job. This is our current season in life. Spend some time evaluating the needs of your home and family. Formulate a plan that works for you. Being prepared is the key whether you are waiting on a hurricane to hit land or just anticipating the season ahead. How will your family meet the needs of Christmas gifts this year? What about the kids soccer games, dance lessons, and homework along with everyone needing to be fed? Are your cars ready for the winter? Do you need to take care of flower beds or cleaning out the gutters before the first snowfall? Evaluate your home and family's needs and do what is right for you. If the plans are in place, you can all have winter coats and gloves ready to wear, Christmas gifts planned, and still eat blueberry pancakes, even if IHop makes them. :)
 
Word for Today, Good: I am an optimistic person, one that sees the glass half full. I am also very realistic and can often see what consequences of actions are going to lead to. It is difficult to convince someone that the actions they are taking, which look so "good," can lead to dire consequences. I am not an "I told you so" person, I strive to be a "pick you up, dust you off, and help you on the right path again" person. When I see someone choosing what I know will lead to heartbreak or harm, my desire is to point them toward good. As a believer that "only God is good" as His Word says, it is easy for me to find the help to give someone. Since I am often asked for counsel as a Pastor's wife, I know I always have an answer. Yes, you read that statement correctly, it is not arrogance, it is confidence in the One who is the answer. You see my counsel is often, "I don't know, but I know the One who does." The answer I give may be a scripture I read that morning or a word I heard taught recently. By filling my life with the good that comes from and is God, I will always have an answer, Jesus. He is the answer to the bad, the evil, the sad, the frightening, the disaster, the challenge, ... Yes, I can see good in all there is as long as my eyes are on the Giver of Life. "God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. Therefore we will not fear, even though the earth be removed, and though the mountains be carried into the midst of the sea." "Oh taste and see that the Lord is good; blessed is the man who trusts in Him!"

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